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The Ultimate 11-Day Japan Itinerary for Families with Teens

By July 27, 2025October 14th, 2025Asia, Travel, Trending14 min read
The Ultimate 11-Day Japan Itinerary for Families with Teens
Tokyo and Kyoto: Where we stayed, What we ate, Everything we did, and How we got around
Michelle Tucker

Published: July 27, 2025    Reading Time: Less than 12 minutes     Comments: 4 Comments    Tags:

We spent 11 days exploring Tokyo and Kyoto with our two teens, soaking up neon lights, centuries-old temples, cuddly animals, and more bowls of ramen than I can count.…

Eleven Days: Tokyo & Kyoto

Japan has been on our family’s travel wishlist for years, and this summer, we finally made it happen. We spent 11 days exploring Tokyo and Kyoto with our two teens, soaking up neon lights, centuries-old temples, cuddly animals, and more bowls of ramen than I can count. It was everything I hoped it would be: magical, fast-paced, heartwarming, and full of unforgettable moments that brought us closer as a family.
If you’re thinking about taking your own family to Japan (especially with teens in tow), here’s a recap of our itinerary, favorite experiences, how we got around, and a few tips we picked up along the way.

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Where We Stayed

Tokyo (4 nights) – Mimaru Suites Shinjuku West

We based ourselves at Mimaru Suites Shinjuku West, which is perfect for families, offering apartment-style rooms with space to spread out, as well as a convenient location for exploring the city.  We absolutely loved this hotel for our family.  It was so nice to have a kitchen table, refrigerator for all our 7/11 hauls, and even bunk beds for the kids.

Kyoto (5 nights) Hilton DoubleTree Kyoto Higashiyama

We stayed at the Hilton DoubleTree Kyoto Higashiyama, a peaceful spot near some of Kyoto’s most iconic sights. After the bustle of Tokyo, it was the perfect change of pace.  We booked two rooms at a fantastic price.  The hotel is beautiful, comfortable, and offers a fantastic breakfast buffet.  It also has a wonderful onsen, which was a godsend to my aching muscles each night.  Oh, and I have to give a shout-out for the hotel’s cutest and comfy matching jammies!

Tokyo (1 night) The New Otani

We returned to Tokyo for our final night and stayed at The New Otani, mainly for the pool, which was 100% worth it on a hot summer day.  It is located in Akasaka, a central area that is somewhat less congested than other areas.  The hotel itself is enormous and offers a wide range of amenities.  It was a great place to unwind and relax (especially poolside) before our long flight home the next day.

Tokyo Highlights 

Tokyo was a whirlwind, in the best possible way. We were able to pack in a lot in our first four days.  Here’s what we loved most:

Asakusa and Sensoji Temple

A great mix of old and new. Our visit to Senso-ji Temple provided us with a glimpse of traditional Japan amidst the bustling atmosphere of Tokyo.  Asakusa is also a great spot to take in the beautiful views of the Tokyo Skytree and visit one of the best Mega Don Quixotes

Harajuku and Shibuya

We started the day in Harajuku and ended it in Shibuya.  These two areas are close to each other and can be easily combined in a day. Harajuku was all about shopping, crepes, and people-watching galore. It’s chaotic in the best way, and your teens will love the fashion scene. My daughter spent several hours (and dollars) exploring Takeshita Street.

Once we made it to Shibuya, we did even more shopping, crossed Shibuya Crossing, and snapped a photo with the statue of Hachiko, an Akita dog remembered for his remarkable loyalty, before making it to our Shibuya sky reservation.

Animal Cafes

We visited Mipig Cafe (mini pigs!) and the Owl Village Cafe, both located in Harajuku, and both were a big hit with our animal-loving crew.  The kids enjoyed interacting with the animals.  The pigs came right up and cuddled in our laps, sometimes multiple at a time.

We also purchased a feeding session at Owl Village.  We enjoyed getting up close and personal with the beautiful owls.

Akihabara + Ikebukuro

A dream for anime, gaming, and fans. These neighborhoods are filled with arcades, themed cafés, and quirky pop culture shops. We all ended up preferring Ikebukuro to Akihabara; it felt a little more manageable and just as much fun, plus it had my son’s favorite Pokémon Center, which featured a Pokémon Go Lab.

Shinjuku

Since this was where we were staying, we naturally explored the area each night, trying multiple restaurants, visiting the 3D Cat Billboard, and wandering through Omoide Yokocho, also known as “Memory Lane,” which offered irresistible street food.

teamLab Planets

This immersive digital art exhibit was mind-blowing and, honestly, hard to describe. You just have to experience it. It was a great way to escape the summer heat for a couple of hours.

A couple of pro tips: wear shorts or pants that you can roll up, as you’ll be wading through some installations! Also, be sure to wear pants or shorts.  Many of the exhibits have mirrored floors, so be mindful of wearing skirts or dresses.

Shibuya Sky at Sunset

An absolute must. The panoramic views of Tokyo as the sun goes down are unforgettable, and our teens loved the rooftop vibe. Tickets go on sale at midnight (local time) 14 days prior to the event. The sunset and evening slots sell out fast, so if you’re hoping for that golden-hour view, be sure to book early!

Disney Sea 

We didn’t spend a full day here, but even a few hours were enough to soak in the magic. It truly is unlike any other Disney park. In the summer, they offer a greatly reduced evening passport, which we took advantage of. For us, it was a great way to get a taste of the park. That said, DisneySea is huge, and I’d definitely recommend a full day if you have the time.  It really is a beautiful and unique park, next time I’d prefer to allot an entire day to fully experience it.

Kyoto Highlights 

After the neon dazzle of Tokyo, Kyoto felt like stepping into a beautifully illustrated storybook. Slower-paced, more traditional, and rich with history, yet still full of moments that kept our kids engaged.

Arashiyama

We spent a day here, starting with a customized rickshaw tour that took us around the town and through the bamboo forest. It was honestly a fantastic way to see the area, as it gets quite crowded with tourists. We followed it up with lunch, ice cream, and a walk up to see and feed the monkeys at Iwatayama Monkey Park.

Fushimi Inari Shrine

The iconic red torii gates did not disappoint. It’s a bit of a hike, but totally worth it. We didn’t make it all the way to the top; between the heat and humidity, we made it about 3/4 of the way before heading back down.
A couple of quick tips: hike at least halfway up the path. The crowds thin out the farther you go, leaving you with a much more peaceful experience.  The beginning will be incredibly crowded, but trust me, they will thin out as you go up.  Additionally, there are places to buy water along the way, which was great for us since we went through them quickly.

Nara Day Trip

Feeding the famous bowing deer was a hilarious (and slightly chaotic) highlight. A quick tip: Don’t buy your cookies at the park entrance.  There are so many deer, overly eager to grab your cookies at the entrance.  Do yourself a favor and go farther into the park to buy your cookies where the deer are a little calmer and spread out.
There are actually so many wonderful sites to see in Nara that we actually missed because we were all so hot and tired.   If you get the chance to visit, be sure to stop and see Todai-ji Temple, home to the giant Buddha.

Kiyomizu-dera Temple

Stunning views over the city and a lovely walk through charming streets filled with shops and snacks.  The kids were actually “templed out” by this part of our trip, so it was just Tom and me who went to this temple visit.  I am glad we didn’t skip it, because it was one of the most beautiful we have seen, with views overlooking Kyoto.

Gion

Wandering the historic streets of Gion felt like stepping back in time. While we didn’t spot any geisha, the atmosphere here was unforgettable.  Our hotel was located right on the edge of the Gion, so we spent many nights wandering through its magical streets.

Nishiki Market

You can find just about everything here, from fresh mochi to matcha soft serve. It’s an interesting place to walk around, but be warned that the prices here are significantly higher than those in other shops in other areas.  There are also lots of souvenir and fashion shops in the adjacent pedestrian arcade, where I was able to find a few deals on gifts.

Kibune + Kifune Shrine

Visiting the mountain village of Kibune to explore Kifune Shrine was a unique and off-the-beaten-path experience. The shrine itself is serene and beautiful, nestled in the forest with moss-covered steps and lantern-lined paths. Our initial plan was to dine at a restaurant called Hirobun to try the flowing noodles I had seen on social media. It seemed that everyone else had the same idea. Unfortunately, we discovered there would be a 3.5-hour wait, so we decided to skip that experience.
Instead, we chose to stop at a cafe that offered drinks and sweets. We found a table by the river, which allowed us to relax and soak in the atmosphere, and it turned out to be the perfect decision.
Our time in Kibune was a memorable escape from the summer heat of Kyoto, evoking a fairytale-like feeling. However, be warned: the summer months can be crowded. Although the scenery is beautiful, we found it much more congested than we had anticipated.
We would’ve loved to see even more of Kyoto and the surrounding areas during our stay, but the heat in July was intense. We had to slow our pace quite a bit—and honestly, that was okay.

Getting Around

Japan’s public transportation system is nothing short of amazing, making traveling between and within cities incredibly easy, even with kids in tow.
We took the Shinkansen (bullet train) from Tokyo to Kyoto and back, and it was a smooth, comfortable, and surprisingly fast experience. Definitely book your seats in advance and grab some bento boxes for the ride!  We booked our tickets 21 days in advance, ensuring we secured an “early booking” discounted fare.
For getting around Tokyo and Kyoto, we relied heavily on the metro and rail systems, which are clean, safe, and super efficient. One of the best things we did was load Suica cards onto our phones. It made tapping in and out of stations seamless, eliminating the need for paper tickets or physical cards. We also used Google Maps constantly; it was our go-to for finding train lines, metro exits, and walking directions. It even tells you which car to board for the fastest transfer!
We found the metro to be much easier to navigate and more efficient in Tokyo than in Kyoto.  It wasn’t until after we left that we discovered Kyoto has a much more efficient bus system than its rail system.  Next time, we’ll take the bus around Kyoto instead of trying to figure out the rails.
Navigating Japan’s transit might seem intimidating at first, but it quickly became second nature and made us feel like locals in no time.

Dining

We kept our meals casual and teen-approved throughout the trip, often grabbing egg sandwiches, strawberry sandwiches, and smoothies from 7-Eleven, which quickly became a go-to for convenience and surprisingly tasty snacks.  But we also had a few memorable sit-down meals that stood out and gave us a deeper taste of Japan’s incredible food culture:

Yakiniku Honma (Akasaka, Tokyo)

A fun and flavorful Japanese BBQ experience. Great for families and very interactive.

Hananoi (Gion, Kyoto)

This was hands down the best sushi we’ve ever had. We did a kaiseki meal (chef’s choice) and it was beyond exceptional, fresh, beautifully presented, and an experience in itself. Every course felt like a work of art, and it was a highlight of our stay in Kyoto.

Gion Tanto (Gion, Kyoto)

A charming little spot in the historic district, offering a mix of traditional Kyoto dishes.  FYI, there are only five tables, so there will most likely be a long wait, but trust me, it’s well worth it.

A Happy Pancake (Kyoto)

Fluffy, melt-in-your-mouth pancakes that were totally worth the wait.

Sushi Tetsu (Pontocho Alley, Kyoto)

Fresh, delicious sushi in a cozy, but lively setting. Great value and very family-friendly.  There will most likely be a long wait to get in, but trust me, it’s worth it.

Curry Udon (Shinjuku, Tokyo)

Rich, comforting, and perfect after a long day of exploring.

Di Punto (Shinjuku, Tokyo)

A laid-back wine bar with great pizza and small plates. A fun spot for a more grown-up vibe after the kids had their fill of arcades and Pokémon centers.

Denny’s

Yep, the same Denny’s as back in the States, but with a welcome twist of Japanese flair.  The menu features a variety of comfort dishes from back home, as well as traditional Japanese cuisine, and everything we had was delicious.  Denny’s ended up being my daughter’s favorite place to eat during our trip.

Kyo Baum (Arashiyama, Kyoto)

Our rickshaw guide recommended this spot, and it absolutely delivered. The matcha soft serve here was hands-down the best we had the entire trip, rich, creamy, and not too sweet. A perfect treat after walking through the bamboo forest.

Final Thoughts

This trip wasn’t just about checking boxes off a travel list; it was about creating moments of connection. Whether we were sweating through a shrine hike, marveling at digital art, laughing over strange vending machine snacks, or just figuring out the Tokyo subway system together, each day was filled with memories I know we’ll carry with us for a long time.
If you’re wondering whether Japan is a good destination with teens, the answer is a resounding YES. It’s safe, clean, exciting, and full of things to keep them engaged—from anime to temples to tech. And the best part? We came home even closer than when we left.

Do you have questions, or are you planning your own trip to Japan? Drop a comment or send a message, I’d love to help!

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