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“Do not cry because it is over, smile because it happened.” — Dr. Seuss
Michelle Tucker

Michelle Tucker

A mom of two seeking a little sanity in the everyday.

To me, blonde isn’t just a hair color, it is a state of mind. Blonde has always made me feel bright, optimistic, and that I can take on the world.  I have been blonde since my teen years, and I have found that just like life, maintaining blonde takes lot of work and a ton of maintenance to keep those those dark roots from taking over.  

Blonde isn’t just a hair color, it is a state of mind…”

Today, I am happily married raising our two children in the San Francisco Bay area.   I am still blonde, but I am finding that blonde is even harder to maintain while navigating the trials and tribulations of parenthood and life over 40.  So, come be blonde with me as I share my experiences and tips on everything from family life, to our experiences with learning disabilities, and how I have learned to find sanity in the everyday.

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    Don’t you love discovering new things in familiar places? I had to update an older blog post to add a new favorite place to relax at Disneyland.

    I can’t believe that we only recently discovered The Golden Horseshoe! We’ve probably walked by it 100 times but never went in. It’s ...seriously the best spot to kick back, grab a quick bite, and relax on a hot day at Disneyland. Do yourself a favor and be sure to get a root beer float! So yummy! You can read more about this and more of our Favorite places to relax at Disneyland up on the blog. Link in bio. Have you ever discovered something new in a familiar place?#disneylandcalifornia #goldenhorseshoe #disneydining #disneytips #disneymom #disneyfamily #disneyland #disneymagicmoments

    The Golden Horseshoe #disneyland #disneylandcalifornia #disneydining

    Yay for sunny weather! I don’t know how it is in your neck of the woods, but it seems like we’ve had an extra long, cool stretch of winter and spring this year, but it seems that we finally might be turning a corner.

    This past weekend was finally warm enough to put the top down, take... a drive, and enjoy the California sun! Do you consider yourself a warm weather person or a cooler weather person?

    By the way, if you were in the market for some new shorts for the summer, I highly recommend checking out these by @democracyclothing . They are seriously the most comfortable and flattering jeans shorts that I’ve ever owned. And I am picky when it comes to shorts and jeans! I have them linked on my LTK and in my bio. https://liketk.it/4EleG #shopltk #ltkfashion #jeansshorts #summerstyle #whatiweartoday #fashionover40 #styleover40 #corvette #littleredcorvette

    Yay for sunny weather! I don’t know how it is in your neck of the woods, but it seems like we’ve had an extra long, cool stretch of winter and spring this year, but it seems that we finally might be turning a corner.

    This past weekend was finally warm enough to put the top down, take ...a drive, and enjoy the California sun! Do you consider yourself a warm weather person or a cooler weather person?

    By the way, if you were in the market for some new shorts for the summer, I highly recommend checking out these by @democracyclothing . They are seriously the most comfortable and flattering jeans shorts that I’ve ever owned. And I am picky when it comes to shorts and jeans! I have them linked on my LTK and in my bio. https://liketk.it/4EleG #shopltk #ltkfashion #jeansshorts #summerstyle #whatiweartoday #fashionover40 #styleover40 #corvette #littleredcorvette

    #AD Changing our garden watering system to a drip irrigation has already helped us save so much water. Now the water only goes directly to the plants that need it. No more wasted water from sprinkler heads watering spots that don’t need it. @saveourwaterca

    For more tips on saving water,... visit saveourwater.com #POV #Saveourwater #Waterwise #California

    Wishing I was still back in my happy place. I may not be there, but at least it’s Friday!
    On a separate note, has anyone else jumped on the belt bag craze? I got my first one last year for my travels. I became so obsessed with it that I haven’t used a purse now in over a year! I have ...never liked carrying around a bunch of stuff so these are just so convenient, and they are perfect for travel. They have a bunch of really cute colors out right now perfect for spring and summer. I have them linked on my LTk. I have the Link in bio. Have a Happy weekend! #disneycaliforniaadventure #fridayvibes #happyweekend https://liketk.it/4E0zo #ltkfashion #shopltk @shop.ltk

    Wishing I was still back in my happy place. I may not be there, but at least it’s Friday!
    On a separate note, has anyone else jumped on the belt bag craze? I got my first one last year for my travels. I became so obsessed with it that I haven’t used a purse now in over a year! I have never... liked carrying around a bunch of stuff so these are just so convenient, and they are perfect for travel. They have a bunch of really cute colors out right now perfect for spring and summer. I have them linked on my LTk. I have the Link in bio. Have a Happy weekend! #disneycaliforniaadventure #fridayvibes #happyweekend https://liketk.it/4E0zo #ltkfashion #shopltk @shop.ltk

    I knew I would find some ways to use all that parsley! I totally forgot about this Couscous Tabouleh recipe. I used to make it all the time years ago. I have the full recipe up on stayingblonde.com #couscous #couscoussalad #tabbouleh #couscoustabouleh #summersalad #saladrecipes #easyrecipeideas

    Who else has started planting? So far I’ve gotten my tomatoes and peppers in the ground. I think it might finally be warm enough to plant my cucumbers this weekend! I love spring! If you’ve started planting what have you planted? #gardeninglife #veggiegarden #californialiving #springtime ...#springvibes

    Who else has started planting? So far I’ve gotten my tomatoes and peppers in the ground. I think it might finally be warm enough to plant my cucumbers this weekend! I love spring! If you’ve started planting what have you planted? #gardeninglife #veggiegarden #californialiving #springtime ...#springvibes

    Disney Dining Reservations #disneydining #disneyland #disneytips

    Having a nice sit down meal is essential to making our Disney trip as magical as possible. We have a few restaurants that we look forward to each time we visit. In order to get the reservations we want, even at the hard to get restaurants, we use a few techniques that have worked for us each and ...every time.

    1. Book Early: Reservations open up at 6 AM, 60 days in advance.

    2. Be Flexible: Book what ever time you can get. You can always try to change the time after you get the reservation.

    3. Check for Cancellations: These do pop up every so often.

    4. Join a Walk-up List: these actually work a lot better than I thought they would.

    5. Visit in Person: if all else fails, go visit the restaurant where you would like to eat. If you visit, especially in the off hours, there is a chance they can get you in.

    You can find more about these five simple tips over on StayingBlonde.com. I have a link to the blog post in my bio. #disneydining #disneytips #disneyland #disneylandcalifornia #bluebayou #lamplightlounge #carthaycircle #tradersamsenchantedtikibar #disneymom #disneyfamily #disneymagicmoments

    Happy Friday! Do you always buy bikinis as a set? Or do you buy pieces separately?

    I used to always buy them as a set, but now I am really picky about bottoms, especially if they are pricy! I loved this top so much, but I wasn’t crazy about the bottoms that went with it. They didn’t ...have much coverage, and I need coverage! 😝 So I splurged on the top, which I am glad that I did because it’s great quality and oh so comfortable. I found these bottoms for under $15 at Target and I think they work great. I did this with the cream version of this suit too.

    The top was just too cute to pass up. If you’re looking for a comfortable, flattering, wireless bikini top that holds everything in place you need to check this one out. It’s on the pricier side, but so worth it. I feel like I will still have this top 20 years from now. I have it linked in my bio and on my LTK page. https://liketk.it/4DpnF #bikini #bikiniseason #swimsuitseason #swimsuit #ltkswim #disneylandhotel #springbreak #montceswim #fashionover40 #styleover40 #whatiweartoday

    Disney’s Lamplight Lounge #worldofcolor #disneycaliforniaadventure #disneyland #disneydining

    I can’t believe we got this last minute reservation. What a surprise! This was our first time dining at the Lamplight lounge, and I honestly didn’t know what to expect, but the food was delicious and the show was amazing! There is seriously no better way to watch “World of Color!”
    I ...have a new post up on Staying Blonde with five tips on how to always get the dining reservations you want at Disney. Link in bio. #lamplightlounge #disneycaliforniaadventure #disneyland #disneylandcalifornia #disneytips #disneydining #disneytipsandtricks #disneylandtips #disneymom #disneyfamily #pov #surprise

    I think I’ve already found my new favorite summer dress! I can’t believe that I was on the fence about sending it back. Have you started summer shopping yet? I have this dress linked in my bio if you want to check it out. #summerdress #summerdresses #fashionover40 #styleover40 ...#whatiweartoday #summerstyle #tuckernuck #shirtdress #littleblackdress https://liketk.it/4CD3C

    Yay for Spring Break! One great thing about living in California is having @disneyland within driving distance for a spontaneous getaway.

    We actually didn’t have anything planned for spring break, but last week we all decided that we needed just a few days away. So, here we are. I only... wished that I looked at little deeper and realized that we are here for Dapper day! I at least had a dress packed in my bag, but I would have preferred us all looking much more dapper for Dapper Day. 🙂
    #disneyland #disneylandcalifornia #dapperday #disneylandhotel #disneyfamily #disneymom

    Yay for Spring Break! One great thing about living in California is having @disneyland within driving distance for a spontaneous getaway.

    We actually didn’t have anything planned for spring break, but last week we all decided that we needed just a few days away. So, here we are. I only... wished that I looked at little deeper and realized that we are here for Dapper day! I at least had a dress packed in my bag, but I would have preferred us all looking much more dapper for Dapper Day. 🙂
    #disneyland #disneylandcalifornia #dapperday #disneylandhotel #disneyfamily #disneymom

    Couscous Tabbouleh Salad #salad #saladrecipe #tabbouleh #couscoussalad